I know, I’ve not posted in a while… I’ll explain later on… Right now I want to ask you to please pray for the Whitlow and Hollingsworth families.
My cousin Gary and his wife Kim were tragically killed by a tornado late this past Friday night on their way to visit Gary’s family for the holiday weekend, and to meet their new baby nephew. News stories here, here, here, and here. I still can’t believe it’s true. I don’t *want* to believe it’s true. Honestly, I’ve waited so long to even post anything b/c actually writing all this out makes it more real than I want it to be.
Gary and I weren’t close when we were growing up – he’s a boy, he’s four years older than I, and I only saw him once or twice a year – but after I moved here to CO, we started seeing each other more often. Then Gary and Kim started dating, and later married, and we saw each other even more because Kim and I quickly became friends. Over the past four years I’ve spent more time with and have become closer to them than I am with some of my cousins who I saw nearly every day when we were growing up. Funny how that happens, sometimes, isn’t it?
The following is a slightly modified verstion of a poem I wrote a few years ago when a friend from college died tragically and unexpectedly. The same thoughts have been swirling through my head these past few days…
When I first heard the awful news:
G and K had passed away
I didn’t know just what to think,
or even what to say.
And as I lay here, trying to sleep,
I just keep asking, “why?”
Why did this have to happen?
Why did they have to die?
Why did God have to take our friends?
They were so very young.
It seemed, to us, as though their lives
Had only just begun.
But Our Lord has a master plan,
And works in His own time.
And although I would like it to be,
It’s not the same as mine.
We find comfort knowing that
Strong, Christian lives they led.
Because of this, as we all know,
The best still lies ahead.